Hebrews 12:11 (NIV) No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.
Today’s Christians don’t want to be corrected, that makes us “legalistic”, they say, however the Bible declares
(Titus 1:13) This testimony is true. For this reason reprove them severely so that they may be sound in the faith.
(Hebrews 12:6) Because the Lord disciplines the one he loves, and he chastens everyone he accepts as his child.”
If you aren’t willing to accept ALL of God’s word and only want to pick and choose the verses that seem support your undisciplined walk, you aren’t lining up with God’s word.